Monday, August 13, 2012

Keeping On




   Summer days go by all too quickly. I can hardly believe it's mid-August already. Here in Oregon, we're finally hitting the 90s and it actually feels like summer. I'm ignoring the back to school sales and telling myself that the few trees that are already turning are flukes. Those geese flying overhead must have it all wrong because, seriously, it feels like summer just started. Fall is my favorite season, but let's not rush into things. I want to linger in these summer days, watching the kids run in the sprinkler and eat popsicles on the deck. I want to see their bare legs and sun-kissed shoulders a little longer, and smell their grubby little heads after long hours of playing outside. 

    Here are a few updates to recent news from our home:

  • The sale of our home fell through. We actually have now had two offers that have fallen through.  In the first situation the buyers just sort of disappeared, and in the second we were actually pending sale and ran into some issues and they pulled out. We were pretty disappointed but feel ourselves being buoyed up in great loving arms. We find it strange, and so does our realtor and everyone else, that we've had so many "close calls", but no sale. We know though that there is a bigger picture and we don't see the whole thing. So we wait, and try to keep our home reasonably clean and ready to show at an hour's notice. (Ha!) We are resigned to the fact that we will not be going to South America this fall. We're continuing to cross things off our lists and prepare to launch when the house sells, trusting that God will shed light on our path as we move forward.
  • We've had a couple great weeks with Peregrine. I am so, so encouraged! There has been much more peace in our home as he has been more calm and able to cope with things. We have been blessed to find a couple different practitioners who have been helping us to balance some physical things in his body. One is Dr. John Green from The Evergreen Center in the Portland area. He specializes in working with kids on the autism spectrum and did a lot of lab work on Peregrine. We learned that he has very high mercury levels, a big zinc/copper imbalance, and that his adrenal glands are stressed, causing low cortisol levels. We've had him on a number of supplements to help bring him into better health. We've also taken him to a chiropractor and nutrition consultant who I believe is helping. (In fact, we were in an appointment with her when the news of the house came to us, and I thought that perhaps God was keeping us here a little longer because we need this woman's help right now.) The difference has been remarkable. A few days ago he ate something that sent him into sobbing, raging, inconsolable behavior for about 24 hours. I can't pinpoint what it was, but it sure made me glad that it's now the exception and not the norm! Hopefully we can figure out what the trigger is. Overall, I feel very encouraged and thankful. It feels like puzzle pieces are coming together and that God is giving us the answers we need to move forward in more peace and harmony. 
    Thanks to all who have been praying for our family. We feel so, so blessed at how much support and love we are continually shown by those who know us and even those who don't! 

11 comments:

  1. Anonymous4:39 PM

    It was so good to see you all briefly the other day! We will have to do it again VERY soon, as we didn't have much of a chance to talk! So glad you are getting things figured out with Peregrine. Love to you.

    ~The Magee's

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    1. Yes, indeed! Ditto. Soon.

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  2. ♥ sprinkler and popsicles here, too...loving these days! I hope for the best for all of you, everything is in God's hands, maybe He wills you to be satisfied here?

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    1. Thanks, Marfa. Yes, we are learning to practice contentment. :>

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  3. So interesting about Peregrine and so wonderful... I remember reading that kids on the autism spectrum often have higher levels of mercury and other toxins because they don't "off gas" those the way everyone else does... evidently most of us purge a lot of those toxins through our hair... isn't that odd? Anyway... that's not in the least helpful, it just came to mind as I was reading... you probably already know that. I'm encouraged that things are going well at your house and you're finding your feet!! Hugs!

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    1. Thank you! Yes, the mercury thing is weird. His levels were super high, and that's all we can figure, is that his body doesn't know how to flush it. It was actually encouraging to get the lab results back and see there were definite physical things that were contributing, things we could do something about.

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  4. Heather4:45 PM

    That's great news about Peregrine! :) God is so awesome and knows exactly what He's doing. ;) I'll continue to pray for you guys!!

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    1. Thanks for your prayers, Heather!

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  5. I love your attitude about the house sale falling through. It definitely happened for a reason and when everything is just right it will sell for you. Hugs to you!

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  6. Rebeca,
    In needing some recent support on handling thing's here with our five year old, I wanted to leave a link to a post I found helpful for others... some very practical advice I've always tried implementing: http://naturalpapa.com/fatherhood/fatherhood-and-the-spirited-child-7-tips-for-parenting-a-fiery-child/

    -Anastasia

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    1. Thank you Anastasia!

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